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Flowers for Japanese Bereavement

Every aspect of a Japanese bereavement has meaning and symbolism, including the flowers. Immediately after death, flowers, incense, and candles are placed on a small table next to the deceased bed. Flowers, again, are used at the end of the funeral service as attendees place flowers in the coffin around the head of the departed before the casket is sealed. The traditions and etiquette of Japanese bereavements are long established and should be followed to avoid offending the family. The types of flowers for Japanese bereavements are specific, as is the color of the flowers, which should be white.
  1. Chrysanthemums

    • Chrysanthemums, generally white in color but can also be yellow, are the traditional funeral and bereavement flower in the Japanese culture. In Japan, the white chrysanthemum symbolizes grief, death and lamentation. Chrysanthemums have long been prized by the Japanese; in fact, the chrysanthemum is the national flower. White chrysanthemums as a bereavement flower, in arrangements or as a funeral wreath, will be appreciated by the family.

    Lilies

    • Lilies in any culture are a favorite for bereavement floral arrangements. White lilies traditionally represent death, purity and innocence. Many Japanese regard lilies as sacred, and including white lilies in a bereavement arrangement sends a message of respect for the deceased.

    Lotus Blossoms

    • Many Japanese funerals are preformed according to Buddhism traditions. In Buddhism the lotus flower symbolizes enlightenment and perfection. The color of a lotus blossom also has a meaning. White lotus flowers represent spiritual perfection and mental purity. A fitting tribute to a deceased Japanese person who is of the Buddhist faith would be to include lotus blossoms in your flower arrangement.