How to Make a Memory Garden

Choose a location to build your memory garden. A quiet corner of your backyard, a patio area or a section of the front yard landscape are all possibilities for your project.

Pick a central focus for the memory garden. Perhaps a young ornamental tree, a rose bush or an evergreen will be the main plant you use to memorialize your loved one.

Plant flowers and plants that evoke memories of the loved one who has passed. Start with plants she liked, flowers in the colors she wore or scents that remind you of her, such as lavender or violet. You could also choose plants that have special meaning, such as birth month flowers, plants with the same name (Rose, Rosemary, Veronica, Lily) or other significance, such as the forget-me-not or bleeding heart. For veterans or those in the military, plant red, white and blue flowers and poppies.

Add a statue or stonework to the memory garden. A kneeling angel, a cross or a statue of a saint may have special significance.

Make or buy a memorial garden bench or sitting stones to create a place for visitors to sit, share memories and reflect. The bench can be a simple wooden bench or a more elaborate one with personalization.

Add a plaque or sign that indicates the purpose of the garden. "Welcome to Sarah's Garden" or "In Memory of Grandma Alice" are equally appropriate options. Something as simple as a marker with the person's first name or a significant quote would work, too.