Separate the two sides of the joint and thoroughly clean the joint area with the steel wool. The copper will be really shinny once it is clean.
Put on the gloves and apply flux around the outside of the male side of the joint and the inside of the female side. The male side sits on the inside of the female side when the two pieces are joined together.
Connect the joint together.
Turn on the blow torch and begin heating the outside of the female side of the joint, about 1 inch down the tubing from the joint. Slowly work the torch around the tubing, keeping the flame perpendicular to the tubing, while moving closer to the end of the tube. Stop once you get to where the male and female portions meet.
Touch the solder to the joint and slowly move it round the circumference of the joint as it melts. If the solder does not melt, heat the tubing some more and try again until the solder melts.
Heat the tubing a little more. Then add more solder and allow the joint to fully cool at room temperature.